Are you questioning whether or not It’s even WORTH SAVING?
If you could change one thing about your relationship what would it be? Wouldn’t you want things to be the way they were in the beginning! Wouldn’t you want to feel the closeness that you once had! Wouldn’t you want to feel loved and cared about again?
Do you feel like you’ve invested too much in this relationship to just walk away?
How much more of the heartbreak can you handle? Have you been trying everything you can think of and things just don’t get any better? Obviously, what you’re doing right now isn’t working.
From: Vidya, Model in kanpur
I really want to commend you for taking the time and initiative to see if there’s any hope for your relationship.
I used to cry myself to sleep at night worrying whether my husband and I were going to stay together for even one more day. We used to be best friends, I just didn’t know what happened. How did it get so bad? I knew how close we were in the beginning. We wanted to spend every minute together. We just couldn’t get enough of each other. Now, we were hardly speaking. And when we did it was never pleasant.
It makes me mad that people get more training learning how to flip burgers at McDonald’s than in rising a long-term relationship.
I knew that when my relationship started to slide downhill, I was in a race against time. If I didn’t do something right away, I knew in my heart that I may not be able to save my relationship at all. What a shame it would be; to lose the one person that means everything to me!
You may already feel that your partner doesn’t love or want you anymore.
You may even feel that your relationship has reached the “Point of No Return”.
You want your relationship just like I wanted mine, and you want peace in your life.
If you didn’t you wouldn’t be here right now looking for answers. Believe me, I know how you feel. I felt the same way too… Nine years into my marriage, things had gotten so bad that I was wondering if it was even worth saving!
Chances are, like me, you’ve turned to friends and family looking for help and advice. You may have even tried chat rooms and discussion forums looking for someone to help. I’ve found advice from these sources just doesn’t work… Worse, as I experienced, they encourage you to “throw the bum out”.
And the tons of relationship books out there, I found most left me with more questions than answers.
I went the whole rout and tried Counselors, Psychiatrists and Psychologists. They always drug my problem out, session after session.
After months of counseling things just never got any better.
Later, I learned that nearly all of the relationship analyst, coaches, self-help book authors, and seminar speakers that I’ve ever heard of haven’t been able to hold their own marriages together.
Some are working on their third and some even on their fourth marriage.
So ask yourself this! How can someone give you good advice about your relationship if they haven’t even been able to hold their own together?
I realize you don’t know me yet but honestly I hate to think of you wasting another day stuck in a bad marriage or relationship. I don’t want you to go another second without doing something about it.